What the Hell is 'Trash The Dress' Anyway?

I often get asked from other professionals in the wedding industry "Do you do trash the dress?" It seems to be one of those strange industry barometers, used to determine how 'in touch' you are with the latest trends.

It occurred to me during a Saturday afternoon of wedding consultations where I explained to three different couples what this kind of shoot entailed, that although everyone in the industry is talking about it, the more real people out there, are still not overly familiar with the entire concept.

Therefore, I took this creative opportunity to put together an example shoot of this so called 'Trash the Dress,' so you can have a wee look and make up your own mind on this crazy trend..

Special thanks are due to Rosie for Modelling.  This shoot was composed in a rapeseed field near Rockliffe Hall.

A big part of Trash the dress (For me anyway) is that the important part of the whole concept, is to remove the 'Wedding' vibe from taking photographs of a bride in her dress, and to simply try and have a bit of unrelated fun with it.  Frolicking about in a field is something most little girls found fun to do, why not pair this whimsical fairytale with that of being in a pretty white dress as a bride?

 Taking things to the more extreme part of "Trash The Dress" is to literally trash the wedding dress.  This may seem "throw away" and very taboo, why on earth would you want to ruin that dress that you paid so much time and money selecting?  I think it is just taking the chance to be totally shocking, rebelling against 'the same old same old' in portraying yourself as a virginal pristine bride may be something that is rather alien to you.  Why not take an extra day to dress up and show yourself rebelling against this conform?

 I'm sure many artists and philosophers would say that doing something like this could also be regarded as showing off the transformational part of becoming married, and a wife.  You are in many ways mimicking a caterpillar becoming a butterfly.  Instead of a chrysalis being shed, you are marking this occasion by shedding the dress.

I do have to say that I LOVE the rebellion perspective.  Many brides are coerced into planning the big day around family expectations, politics, and some have to capitulate against overbearing family members and their wishes for how the day will go.  Giving any bride the chance to make up a photo that would make "Grandma have kittens" is kind of a punk way to even out the scales.

For me this new concept of extending out your Wedding Photography to make some more personal memories is a wonderful way to get more creative.  I think in conclusion this idea of "Trash the Dress" is actually an umbrella term for giving brides the chance to do something different to the Wedding and marking the occasion with alternative memories to go with the getting married stage of their lives.

If doing something like this appeals to you tell me all about your idea's.  We don't have to ruin the dress, lets just plan something personal to you.  Use the secret code of "Muddy Boots" to get a free session booked in alongside your Wedding Photography.  Lets create something brilliant together!

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Beccy & Darren's Sunshine Wedding at Rockliffe

I spoke with Beccy a couple times in the run up to the Wedding - Saturday 15th June 2013.  But due to Darren's schedule we all met just a few days before the Wedding Day itself.  I was pleased to meet them and answer all last minute questions about the day.  They were pretty chilled -as a couple about to tie the knot- so I had a feeling that their day was going to be Relaxed, Fun-filled and jubilant.

With the ceremony complete at St Mary's Church in Acklam, we all headed down to Rockliffe Hall.  Not only were the couple of the day full of happiness and cheer, their very cool vicar told me she had to reschedule the rehearsal in order to spend the night rocking out with Mr Jovi.  Exceedingly cool!

Here at Rockliffe, the Bridal Party and all of their guests were happy to indulge my musings.  Here we created my interpretation of a Haribo Fizz ad.  Just look at those shapes!

We got Flower Girl Sienna to keep those boys in line in this shot.  I asked all of the men to look at Sienna, thinking we'd get a cute picture.  She didn't like my idea and instead went for the tongue pose, much to all of our amusement. A priceless moment.

Inspired by our Vicar's recent venture, we all went for the rocking out wave pose (minus lighters).  I was thrilled to see all guests took part.  A real cracking bunch.  Whatsmore, the sun shone brightly especially for us.

 

 A toast on the terrace.  Cheers you two!

After dining, guests (and myself) were thoroughly entertained with the speeches.

Here Darren re-counts the story of how he met Beccy.  She carries off embarrassment with grace.  I'm not going to tell the story here!











Beccy's brother Graeme gave her away.  His speech was very heart-felt and I think he certainly did her proud.
















Darren's cousin Gary was an excellent best man.  Incorporating a sweepstake into the timing of his "much-awaited" speech, he had the crowd in the palm of his hand.  Animated, and liberal with stories about Darren, we all learned about tales of cars and nights out on the town.  (I'll leave it there Darren ey?)

Taking a relaxing stroll on the croquet lawn

And finally, sharing one of many moments of giggling with happiness.

All joking aside, I wish you both the best of luck and huge congratulations.  I cannot wait to show you the rest of the work we created together. 

Laura x

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